Decor, Wedding

My Wedding Binder

Yes, I have a wedding binder. And yes, it's deserving of its own post. Because it's not like I could use just any old binder...I "upholstered" one with red fabric from one of my sisters old outfits, complete with the "Gota" appliqué. I just felt like its only right that the book which would house… Continue reading My Wedding Binder

Christian Louboutin, Louboutin, Shoes, Wedding

The Arrival of My Louboutins

Eeeeeeeeee!!!!! They've arrived!!! This was the exact squeal of delight that I let out when my mom texted me at work telling me "you won't believe what I have for you.""My shoes?!?!?!" I replied. So, naturally, I came straight from work (lunch break, people!) to meet them. They say a picture is worth a thousand… Continue reading The Arrival of My Louboutins

Bridal, Christian Louboutin, Louboutin, Shoes

In Pursuit of my Wedding Louboutins

Oh the lengths a girl will go to for a good pair of shoes! And how I did, in pursuit of my wedding Louboutins.... Now, I've outlined my adoration for this French shoe designer in a post about 'My First Pair of Louboutins' on another blog of mine (which I've neglected for far too long… Continue reading In Pursuit of my Wedding Louboutins

Cards, Invitation, Pakistani, Wedding

Invitations Have Arrived!!!

Yay! Finally! The invitations have arrived!And so yesterday, I picked up the 70 cards that I need for the wedding from my fiance's place, while the remainder (200 cards) remain with them for their anticipated 500 guests on the valima (gulp, lol - there's a reason my blog is called my big FAT Pakistani wedding!) So… Continue reading Invitations Have Arrived!!!

Engagement, Marriage, Planning, Wedding

Four Months to Go!

I  had this realization the other day. When I first had my baat pakki (a "pre-engagement" sorta thing) in the summer of 2011, a wedding in the autumn of 2013 felt like ages away! Even when my fiance officially put a ring on it (in a manner that was nothing short of a production, by… Continue reading Four Months to Go!

Cards, Etiquette, Invitation, Wedding

Wedding Invitation Etiquette

Some may say I have a tendency to exhibit what a generation who grew up on Friends have come to term as 'Monikaisms.' It's ok; I'm self aware. I own my OCD tendencies!...One of which was revealed to my fiancé during the invitation ordering process. And oh, he found out, what a process it was!… Continue reading Wedding Invitation Etiquette

Bollywood, Lahore, Liberty, Pakistan, Shopping

Liberty! (Clothing Edition).

What better time to pen a post than when one feels nostalgic about the subject?And how I do! For Liberty, the main shopping bazaar in Gulberg, Lahore, the heart of the city's commercial/shopping area.Yes: shopping in Pakistan can be frustrating, things take time, shopkeepers don't always keep their promises, it's hot and tiring... but I… Continue reading Liberty! (Clothing Edition).

Ceremony, Nikah, Pakistani, Wedding

The Nikah (Wedding) Ceremony in Pakistani Weddings

OK. Here we go. The Nikah. The sacred marriage contract between a man and a woman which legitimizes living as husband and wife. The Nikah must be declared publicly, and hence we have the nikah, or wedding, ceremony.Here's where things get ugly.I haven't been to that many Pakistani Muslim weddings, but the one's that I… Continue reading The Nikah (Wedding) Ceremony in Pakistani Weddings